13. Uplifting message from a group of Pleiadians about self compassion 

The time has come for an embodiment of a new type of consciousness. This will be manifested in how each and everyone of you, light workers, perceive your own sufferings in this life. It matters so much that a type of guilt that has been constructed in your minds is overcome. You have been surrounded by teachings of the old, that insist you could have control over all variables in your life “if only” you could silence this emotion, or that past action. And so you struggle with things as if an endless karmic cycle could only be finished once life was pure bliss. So you take every little discontentment as a sign that you are still in karma, while some of you listening to this have already overcome the karmic part of your lives. Others of you are still clearing some situations, in the way that is simply in order to create more love. 

So you might have history with this or that soul that cohabits in this life with you, and you want to set all the possible misunderstandings and situations right, still doesn’t mean any of you owes that other anything, or owes the universe anything. It is like renovating a house that was standing up perfectly, but someone may decide to paint it and decorate it and make it more special. Houses can be in perfect state and still be improved. So many situations you are improving in your life now might look one way, because you have no other thinking pattern through which you can understand it with more compassion. Then you place so much unnecessary guilt and you keep forcing for a sudden change on things that are just life happening, that are just being human in 3D. 

5D is a level of consciousness that requires overcoming an idea that it is necessary to control so many things, and that there is a specific outcome that requires all your might to happen, and that, and only that outcome, will mean you did it right. When in reality, just by being here, you have already done it right, since this channel is being created in a vibration that will only attract those who came to this life as volunteers. If you are listening to this message, it reached you, it is because it is meant for you. 

The rules of consequences are not so simple, because perspective plays a big role in all that happens to a person, and how much joy or misery they have from a particular event. If you feel miserable because a traumatic event took place, then you add or remove guilt, the amount of pain will certainly change. But in order to remove guilt, it is necessary to remove fear of losing control of your destiny, and surrender this destiny to the light of Source. In perfect bliss, would you honor yourself better? Can you respect your experience as a human even though it is not, in some aspects, as you were told it should be? Can you go through pain without taking it as a personal failure?

A long time ago, my home planet went through a chaotic invasion, from fugitives from another planet in the same solar system. We welcomed them, thinking they would honor our ways of living, but that didn’t happen. They were uninvited after displaying some horrible behavior, we couldn’t host them for reasons outside our control, first of all, we couldn’t provide food and shelter for all. So we sent them away and after that, without our protection, they were annihilated. We developed a sense of collective guilt that led us into a path of self destruction. We starved, our crops went bad. Our water resisted and the soil was perfectly fine, we were so deserving of hunger, in our collective consciousness, that we became poor at doing our work and that was all there was. 

It took us an eternity to understand that responsibility would have been the opposite, to learn how to be more abundant, so we could help other populations during difficult times. We could have focused on becoming more abundant instead or becoming miserable. It was a reality that we didn’t have the means to harvest, to grow, to feed, to shelter, and yes our guests were wild and uncooperative, it was just a harsh reality. Had we been stronger and richer, then we could assist someone else. But the mindset was of guilt, and we waited in silence for that war to be over and then we sank into our own misery that lasted for a long, too long, period of time. We wanted to control the outcome from a place of fear, it set us back in our ways of living and put us in a vulnerable place.

So once we took this path we became stuck in it, and instead of this payment of debts bringing us soul evolution, it only brought us obscurantism and irrelevance. We couldn’t share anything with anyone, and from a planet known to help others, we became a planet in need of assistance, which brewed resentment towards our neighbors. After their war was over, they reorganized and prospered, while we went into decay. Many of us blamed them, we envied them, believing they had destroyed our home during their war, they had taken advantage of us and not even looked back after the devastation. In their state of advancement, they were evolving spiritually also, with peace, they re-evaluated war and found common ground with their differences, there was a lot of diplomacy going on in there. 

However they ignored us for a long time. It required a whole three or four generations for them to add us into account when they referred to their wars and how it led to peace and the end of their habits of fighting over things that should be resolved peacefully. By the time they realized we were part of the equation, we were living in a less than commendable way, with lack of food and clean ideas. 

Chronic attachment to guilt might lead a population into obscure social organizations, because those who think they deserve to be punished end up accepting power hierarchies that pervert human nature. When they came back to check on us, we saw them as saviors and wanted to give our power to them. Our neighbors didn’t enslave us, because they knew better, it could have been easily done, so far we were in our path. We were still the same souls, reincarnating after absolution. 

Instead of taking anything from us, as we expected, based on our first experience and distorted point of view, they built schools and centers of rehabilitation. Teaching us new ways of producing food, housing, and new ways of thinking. They had become very advanced in ethics and restoration of physical aspects of society. Rebuilding after a terrible war had taught them how to improve a society in very efficient manners. Today you call them Pleiadians, and that is just one of the stories from our huge constellation in the Pleiades. There are many, many different peoples who do not interact as often with you, it is so vast and filled with life. 

We were also helped and rebuilt from a situation similar to yours by the same friends who assist you now. They taught us these important lessons about guilt and as a gratitude action, we are here to show you that it was the most precious lesson of all. More important than anything else, because from that, we saved ourselves and now we are also starting our own projects of assisting places where the population can’t find relief after wars. We go where war is, and work in the rebuilding, using our own abundance as the means to help others.

Our hearts are filled with joy, watching how our professors have been working here. We are their apprentices at the moment, and off course, we are also helping. This is a school for us, because so much is hidden and not much is what it seems, so assisting you right now demands a complexity that is bewildering, and somewhat magical is how strategically and artfully it is done. So many intricacies, all so delicate and through all of this work, our friends hold the energy of love, compassion and joy. 

Not everything they do has the result that could have been. Some actions our benefactors take are ignored, some attempts for peace… So many times have they visited world leaders on Earth and their loving prospects were rejected, and they never give up, because they understand they were not frustrated in their plans because they did something wrong, it was just the way it happened. So they wait for any small change in scenario and try it again. This is their way of persisting, not stopping on the obstacle but simply planning again and again. Because it is not a star brother's denial on a diplomatic act that will make a Pleiadian drown in guilt, there is a way for things to happen on Earth right now, so every act of kindness has a risk of not working out. 

But then you might think of this earthly brother who frustrated the attempt for peace, he did what he thought was right and we, at this point, let him deal with that, because things naturally solve themselves. He will be responsible for the havoc, no one is exempted from consequences and one day he will be stuck in a cycle of guilt, most certainly. But that is his journey, and one day he will have to learn that guilt and responsibility are very different things. Guilt is set back after the next. Responsibility is productive and active. The latter might be taken in situations someone chooses to be in voluntarily. If I chose to help you and you say no, I can choose to stop helping you or to find different ways to help you, it doesn’t mean I am in any way responsible for how you receive my help.

And the same goes for those you decided to love and help in this life. It doesn't mean there is a debt, it simply means you decided to love and help that person, and because reality here is the way it is, the results are not a measure of the quality of what you were offering. Since you are an awakened soul, you will master how to do this helping in any case, if the other ones take your help, you will improve, if they deny, you will improve, because that is the level of understanding you already have. So choose to be happy because you are at this point in your evolution already. Think you are the one wanting to be more abundant so you have more to share, and then you keep going, without much thought about the immediate results. Even though, because as I said, so much happens that is not seen, and what is seen might be deceiving. 

Sometimes you think your words and actions had no impact, but in the energy field, it was huge, or in the heart of the person there is a silent revolution going on that will only be known in the years to come. Not all results are measured in the following moment of an action. Take pride in your resilience and when things are tough you might at least wonder “what if this is no one’s fault?” and offer yourself some compassion during this journey.

See you next time, take care!